He cussed me out because I wanted to know the index number for his divorce?

4 the past 3 yrs my boyfriend and I been through a lot 2 gether..he had a previous relationship which resulted in having twin girls they broke up but married due 2 him being a immigrant...he obtained a 10yr green card 2 yrs ago and filed 4 divorce over a yr ltr in nov. 2008...I love him a lot I want him 2 be 100 mine..when he fied he showed me everything but he never received nothing its almost 9 mths later..I work at a lawfirm..he said his case is pending my lawyer friends say he should've been received something I asked him 4 his index number so one of the lawyers can check it out..mind u I'm talking calm...he cussed me out so bad...that's it I'm tired of this **** he says either u be with me r not..I told u its pending I refuse 2 give u my index number...I said u showed me everything else r u hiding something?.he said how he stress..I say I am too because I always put myself in your shoes u never do the same I'm hurting..he say I'm always accussing him of blah blah..by then this man had me on the verge of crying because he don't care about my feelings at all...I said u act like u a prize ..I finally yell..I'm the prize and hung up...I had 2 also go through ex gf sending him explicit text..him asking chicks online in email what prt of ny they from..kids mama drama...can anyone tell me if I'm wrong for asking him about this..I want a happy life..why he doesn't want 2 see the both of us happy?..I'm on a pda phone so excuse the short language called ebonics and numbering